Why do men and women can't be real friends?

What about single but not lonely? The friend hardly is necessary for them on behalf of an essence of an opposite sex. For the unmarried woman the man - is the same thing as a fish for a fisherman: to catch and deafen. It is desirable to marry him. A woman for a single men - pleasant desired object of leisure. It is far from friendship, isn't it?

Friends are hugging Why women are not friends of men? Can some relationship advice help in this question? No, we shall bring attention to the question in another way. Why unmarried women are not friends of men? At first sight, to this there is very simple explanation. Such relationship is often impossible because women want to see in a man if not the potential husband, then the lover who is brightening up her lonely nights. If there is a friend, as a rule, he is the admirer who is not in her taste, or the delicate former lover. For men, there is much more powerful reason not to consider a woman as a potential friend.

Nikolay Kozlov, one of the well-known Moscow psychologists, remarked in his book: "Men sleep with women. Men like women. But men - are not friends of women. Friends are those who are respected, men usually respect only men. When a man wants to discuss any problems or to play cards he goes to men, but not to woman though women sometimes can give him some pieces of advice. He can find what to talk to a women about before bed but when after he has already slept with her there is nothing to talk about."


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