Some women are lucky in living abroad, others' destiny is broken, but one can't see such ugly attitude to the women in Europe and America as we do in Russia. If she was officially married in America, for example, she will receive the alimony after divorce for herself and children. Besides there is a plenty of the state Houses abroad where the woman can hide from rigid any time, from the violence of her husband towards her or her children. The staff gives her relationship advice, trying to support her.
If she has small children she doesn't have to work and to earn her living after the divorce. The state pays money to her - for her and her children until they are grown-ups. The state creates all material conditions for the woman is able to bring up children in quiet, normal conditions. The clothes, meal and textbooks, school and some other things for such families are free-of-charge. The state also pays monthly fee for the woman's maintenance.
I think that departure, leaving and all other things of this kind, for example, women's marriage, or dreaming about marriage with the foreigner of Russian women, is the call to all Russian men in general. In fact, men in Russia are not able to defend, love a woman. A typical Russian man betray women continually both in the state scale and in special cases. The only piece of relationship advice that I can give you if you date such kind of a man is to go abroad and to look for a partner there.