We all have problems and quite often. And everybody knows how often we need advice. Unfortunately it is not polite to tell about our problems. It is good if you have nice friends always ready to listen to you and to share your trouble with you. What if you don't? Relationship with people is not an easy field. Remember that those people whose advice you need are the same human beings and they also have troubles. So before telling them about yours, before trying to attract their attention to your person ask them what they are worried about.
Don't be afraid that you will have to spend much time on listening to them. This time will work for you. People usually trust good listeners. Be an attentive listener and find a suitable minute to put a word about yourself. And don't forget to tell them how much you value their opinion, because they are so experienced in giving relationship advice.