The feeling you get from virtual love is very similar to what you feel with normal love. The same tenderness, longing, jealousy, the same rows and reconciling afterwards. Sometimes the electronic sensations become even more attractive than real ones. This happens because they facilitate a very close interpersonal contact, an understanding that we very often lack in real life. Two interlocutors sometimes know more about each other, than a couple that has been married for more than ten years.
If you can put your thoughts together nicely and pay compliments to girls - you are already a wanted interlocutor. Most probably, some computer girl will turn up and see you as the blonde prince of her dreams. The Net starts to bring her passionate letters, and you reply with "My dearest! I have been looking for you all of my life! I love to breathe in the smell of your hair! My head is spinning!" You can well be picking your nose and hiccupping after another can of beer - who said that princes do not hiccup?
The Internet makes one feel that everything that goes on is fictitious. This is why any expert in virtual relations will tell you that you should not get too involved, exchanging dozens of photos, you had better meet instead. When you meet, the picture will become complete. Well, this relationship advice has a grain of truth in it. Virtual relationships are far too impetuous and passionate, they are hard to stop. Moreover, most of us tend to embellish the personality of our imaginary partner and to attribute him with features that he never possessed. Just imagine: after a month of such a lofty relationship you finally schedule a date. But instead of a beauty queen, as you visualized her, there comes a whimsical girl with greasy hair. A terrible disappointment? But whose fault is it? Just our imagination. So, our first piece of relationship advice is: "Meet at once!"
However, our second relationship advice is on the contrary: "Do not hasten to meet!" Now, you may call this women's logic. Yet just think for a moment: you have a unique chance to be evaluated by criteria other than your appearance, or your bank account, or the brand of your car. In the Internet, the only things that really have value are your ideas, thoughts and dreams. In other words, what we call the person's inner world. If you have this inner world - show it. Let the girls fall in love with it first of all. There, we have our third advice: "There is no universal relationship advice!"