Who is looking for overseas fiancés and how do they do it? The staff of international marriage agencies distinguishes between several kinds of mail order brides. Some of them are young ladies who like to dream, some are materialistic carnivores, some are musty divorcees, and some are just pretty and outgoing. The majority of Ukrainian mail order brides comprises women from 25 to 35 years old, living in Kiev or other major Ukrainian cities, with a university or college degree, working. Most of them had a bad experience with establishing their private lives, many have a child.
Some people think that looking for happiness abroad is the destiny of the young. Not necessarily. Of course, the overseas fiancé does his best to ensure that his chosen one would be as young as possible. However, even those in their fifties and sixties keep looking for their other halves. According to a stout fifty-year-old Ukrainian woman, who worked as a maid in Italy for two years (and who has found a partner there), the Italian "signori with gray temples" are nothing like the older men at home. They are lively, neat, gallant, quite well-to-do, well-dressed, and, what is no less important, do not abuse alcohol.
That is why even the older women should not give up hope to become mail order brides. You should write in your profile that you are looking for a man over 50 years of age. These men would have already raised their children, and they do not need any more. They are also looking for women "over forty". Everything would work out well. Just remember that you need to be mild and calm, they have enough troublesome and touchy women at home.
"Age is not a problem! Last year I got married to a very nice American and we have this real tender love between us. He is a lawyer and he is 55 years old. I know I look much younger, people never say I'm more than 43-45, but I know I am 52! We have written to each other for half a year, then we met where I live, in Kharkov, and during this week we understood that we are interested in each other. Then I went to America and lived there for two months in order to understand whether I need this at all... And now it has been a year that we are married, and every day we regret that we found each other so late..."
Vladislav Ilchenko, the manager of "Russian Wife" marriage agency:
- Of course, the young and beautiful, without any problems to be taken care of, find it easier to get married. However, recently a Ukrainian woman who was 56 years old got married through our agency to an Englishman of the same age. He was looking for a woman of forty through the catalogue, but after a consultation with our staff he paid attention to her. And they got married!