Both ways affect approximately equally.
The girl's attitude to the guy develops more than on 70% from estimations of all people around. On the initial stage it is especially important. The most effective, that affects practically smoothly is: you go with her to the theatre, and then you go in a cozy bar/cafe, and together enjoy the situation. Then you see her off up to her home.
Go with her to a skating rink, take a bottle of good wine, ski, take pleasure.
To make special impression on the girl, it is possible to address to a flower delivery service. There specialists will not only make a tremendous bouquet form favourite flowers of the girl, but also will deliver it to her with the best look.
If the young man who has brought the girl home, suddenly starts turning red in his face, then talks nonsense it is no wonder, that the girl will go away. As the women knowing in life sense say: "You, men, like to complicate everything".
Another variant is when a more or less decent young man brings home the girl and suddenly starts grasping her by the back and pulling in the direction of a bed another logical question arises: "And what about kisses and tender words?"
The most successful way known is game. As if unintentional touches. The easiest of caresses, so short, that the girl has time to feel pleasure, but her "blocks" have no time to start working. Besides, the caresses are neutral. Everything else will be next time.
And now do not forget to court the girl beautifully, present flowers to her. If it is difficult for you to choose a bouquet yourself, address to a flower delivery service. The girl will be happy to receive a beautiful bouquet with a love message from a secret (or not secret) admirer.