Situation 1. A man is going to a certain place, and suddenly notices a gorgeous girl. She is standing not far from him but does not see him. She is very beautiful. She has long hair. She is slim and tall, but she is not arrogant at all. She looks kind and nice. He does not know anything about her and it wakes his imagination up. He tries to guess who she is what her name is he asks many other questions in his mind. This lady is a mystery for him. He does not mind it. Why? Because he has time to fall in love, although he himself does not know about that. His instincts work for him now. The lady takes a taxi and leaves. His heart is broken. He continues thinking about her. Then he meets her again. This time he will not lose his chance to start a conversation. He tells her about his feelings . For her he is a knight who was true, patient and devoted to her. They have a good start, don't they?
Situation 2. A man is looking for someone to marry. He applies to some dating services. He sends many letters to different ladies, makes calls, emails the ladies trying to find his soul mate. He spends so much effort but all in vain. He still can't find anyone. Finally he finds a lady who seems to be very close to his ideal. They start corresponding. They spend months on getting to know each other better. After that they finally meet. Do you think they have a promising future? Which situation gives more chances for a happy marriage? Do you know what an average person will say? - It is situation 1. And do you know what a psychologist will say? - It is situation 2. It appears that passion is not necessary at all for a happy marriage. The statistics of Russian women marriage shows the same result. Marriage based on a reliable relationship is much more promising. My advice is use dating services and you may have more chances to find your beloved.